Second addition in view of the EDIT of the answer:
Some examples now focused towards understanding. How valueable/inevitable real and complex numbers are for them, I don't know.
Q: What is a good way to understand that $\sum_{i=1}^n i$ is (up to small error) $n^2/2$. A: Integrate $x$ from $1$ to $n$. (Of course, this precise example is easily handled otherwise but for illustration)
Q: What is a good way to understand the size of $\sum_{i=1}^n i^{-1}$. A: Integrate $x^{-1}$ from $1$ to $n$.
Q: What is a good way to understand the size of $\sum_{i=1}^n d(i)$ where $d(i)$ is the number of divisors of $i$. A: Count the points 'under' the hyperbola $xy=n$.See here and here.
Q: What is a good way to understand units in rings of algebraic integers.A: Consider the points (in $R^k$) obtained by taking the logarithms of the absolute values of their $k$ (essentially) different imbeddings into the complex numbers.
More generally, results on linear forms in logarithms are a main tool in the study of certain Diophantine equations.
Q: What is a good way to understand the number of primes below $x$. A: Observe that the probabilty of a number $y$ to be prime is $y / \log y$ and integrate, getting $Li(x)$.Some details regarding a proof of the precise quality of this approach still need to be established ;).
In various places one will stumble somewhere in number theory over a $Q$-linear map or linear recursion. To undertand them one wants a convenient way to handle the roots of the attached characteristic polynomials, not just as formal constants.
And the list could go on and on.
I am not sure anything of this is what you are looking for.

