EDIT:
I'd like to clarify why I'm interested in nerves (and consequently, why I'd really prefer that my nerve be a simplicial set instead of something more exotic, unless I can be convinced that more exotic objects can be easily adapted to my needs).
My poking around in all of this was inspired by the preprint by Etingof, Nikshych, and Ostrik, "Fusion categories and homotopy theory." The main results of this paper are proved by formulating their questions in terms of classical obstruction theory on the nerves of certain 3-groupoids. The obstruction theory itself can be justified using elementary fiddling with simplicial sets, as the reference Gregory Arone provided to my earlier question on obstrucion theory reveals. However, I wanted to understand the category theory side of the equation better, which led me to try to formulate things in terms of unbiased monoidal 2-categories.
So ultimately, the goal is to have a definition of the nerve to which I can apply my favorite classical obstruction theory techniques. While some people appear to have studied obstruction theory in more general settings, it's not clear to me how to squeeze out the appropriate concrete computational gadgets (e.g., the cohomology groups $H^n(X; \pi_{n - 1}(Y))$) from the relevant abstract nonsense. Of course, if somebody could elucidate how that works, that would be wonderful, although perhaps that should be the subject of another question...

