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The result you asked about follows instantly from Fagin's proof of the zero-one law for finite graphs. He shows that all of Gaifman's extension axioms have asymptotic probability 1, and "diameter $\leq 2$" is essentially one of the extension axioms. Fagin's paper is "Probabilities on finite models" [J. Symbolic Logic 41 (1976) pp.50-58]. I believe the zero-one law was proved earlier by four Russians, but I don't have access to their paper and don't know whether their method immediately implies the "diameter $\leq2" \leq2$" result.

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The result you asked about follows instantly from Fagin's proof of the zero-one law for finite graphs. He shows that all of Gaifman's extension axioms have asymptotic probability 1, and "diameter $\leq 2$" is essentially one of the extension axioms. Fagin's paper is "Probabilities on finite models" [J. Symbolic Logic 41 (1976) pp.50-58]. I believe the zero-one law was proved earlier by four Russians, but I don't have access to their paper and don't know whether their method immediately implies the "diameter $\leq2" result.