There is of course the commutative algebra perspective on Frobenius splittings as well. Indeed, the general case there is much more general than what I think you are even considering. Let me make some comments on various generalizations of the notion of Frobenius splittings.
The perfect field case: Essentially everything works without change as David Speyer already mentions. Of course, there are the usual complications with working over non-algebraically closed field, but I am completely confident that there are no problems with the theory (many of my papers on this subject work in this generality, or the next one). One problem of course is with the differentials, if you are working at non-$k$-points, things get slightly more complicated.
The $F$-finite field case: A field $k$ is called $F$-finite if the $k$ is a finitely generated $k^p$ vector space. This automatically holds for any residue field of a variety of finite type over a perfect field (in particular, the case that David Speyer mentioned above). A variety over an $F$-finite field is still fairly well behaved. In particular, such a variety $X$ is itself $F$-finite, meaning the Frobenius morphism:
$$F : X \to X$$
is a finite map. I don't think the Cartier isomorphism works without doing some relative Frobenius stuff, but, things still mostly work.
In particular, there is still a trace map:
$$T : F_* \omega_X \to \omega_X$$
Here's how you see it. Fix $\omega_X$ on $X$ coming from the structural map to $k$ (in general, this is the first non-zero cohomology of $g^! k$ where $g : X \to k$ is the structural map). There is a natural map $$\mathcal{H}om_X(F^e_* O_X, \omega_X) \to \omega_X.$$ This is the evaluation at $1$ map. On the other hand, it is not difficult to show that in the context described, $\mathcal{H}om_X(F^e_* O_X, \omega_X) \cong F_* \omega_X$ (critically using the Frobenius is finite). Thus we have obtained another trace map.
Notice, this map works for all $X$, not just normal $X$ (it even works for non-reduced schemes of finite type over $k$). This map agrees with the map in the algebraically closed / perfect $k$ case, at least up to multiplication by a unit (in that isomorphism above, I have to make a choice).
Standard arguments then imply, that for normal $X$, we have that Frobenius splittings of $X$ come from sections of $H^0(X, O_X((1-p)K_X)$. Again, let me briefly describe this:
Set $U = X_{\text{reg}} \subseteq X$, the regular locus. Then we have that
\begin{align} & & \mathcal{H}om_X(F_* O_X, O_X) \newline
& \cong & i_* \mathcal{H}om_U(F_* O_U, O_U) \newline
& \cong & i_* \mathcal{H}om_U(F_* (\omega_U^p), \omega_U) \newline
& \cong & i_* \mathcal{H}om_{F_* O_U}(F_* \omega_U^p, \mathcal{H}om_U(F_* O_U, \omega_U))\newline
& \cong & i_* F_* \mathcal{H}om_U(\omega_U^p, \omega_{U})) \newline
& \cong & i_* F_* O_U( (1-p)K_U) \newline
& \cong & F_* O_X( (1-p)K_X).\end{align}
The map $i : U \to X$ is the inclusion and the isomorphsims involving adding or removing the $i_*$ just come because the sheaves are reflexive / S2.
In particular, Frobenius splittings can still be viewed as divisors linearly equivalent to $(1-p)K_X$. The only problem is that we don't quite have the same nice local differential form picture as far as I know (at least, it hasn't been written down).
The $F$-finite scheme case: Now I want to consider schemes not of finite type over a base field, but which are still $F$-finite, in particular, $$F : X \to X$$ is a finite map. Note by a result of Kunz, such schemes are automatically locally excellent, and by a result of Gabber, they all have dualizing complexes. In particular, $\omega_X$ still exists and makes perfect sense.
We still have that $\mathcal{H}om_X(F_* O_X, \omega_X) \cong F_* \omega_X$ locally, but it is an open question whether this is a global isomorphism. It is possible to deduce that there exists a line bundle $L$ such that
$$\mathcal{H}om_X(F_* O_X, \omega_X) \cong F_* (\omega_X \otimes L).$$
For some discussion of this, see THIS QUESTION OF MINE
Regardless, in some applications, you can keep track of this line bundle. In particular, Frobenius splittings correspond to sections of some fixed twist of $\omega_X^{(1-p)}$.
The general scheme case:
The fact that $F_* O_X$ now need not be a finite $O_X$-module seems to make things much harder. Indeed, in this case, requiring a Frobenius splitting doesn't even seem to be the right thing to do.
However, in the local setting, commutative algebra has a replacement.
Definition (Hochster-Roberts): A local ring $R$ is called $F$-pure if for any module $M$, the map:
$$M = M \otimes R \to M \otimes F_* R$$
is injective. This is a weaker condition than being $F$-split, and I think Mel Hochster told me an example at some point, but at this point I forget. Regardless,we have the following.
Theorem: An $F$-finite local ring is $F$-pure if and only if it is $F$-split.
A good reference for this is the paper of R. Fedder, $F$-purity and rationality singularity
It seems that this condition is much better behaved in a number of ways. If you search mathscinet for $F$-pure ring, you'll find many papers on this topic. I should point out that there is even a replacement for an ``honest'' Frobenius splitting in this context.
Set $E$ to be the injective hull of $R/\mathfrak{m}$. It turns out that $R$ is $F$-pure if and only if there exists an injective map $$E \to F_* E$$ (this is a recent result of Rodney Sharp).
Philosophical statement: Maps $E \to F_* E$ should be viewed as replacements for maps $F_* R \to R$ for non-$F$-finite rings.
If $R$ is $F$-finite, such maps are Grothendieck-local-dual to maps $F_* R \to R$ (at least for $R$ complete), and injective ones dualize to surjective ones (which can easily be tweaked into splittings). I think that even in the general context, such maps should still correspond to divisors, although I've never actually checked this.