Please give an example of a flat family {X_t} of closed subschemes of PP^n such that the family of projective cones of X_t is not a flat family in PP^{n+1}.
I still could not find...
Please give an example of a flat family {X_t} of closed subschemes of PP^n such that the family of projective cones of X_t is not a flat family in PP^{n+1}. I still could not find... 


As an example, let $X_t$ be three points in $\mathbb{P}^2$, at positions $(1:0:0)$, $(0:1:0)$ and $(1:1:t)$. This is certainly a flat family. Notice that the points are colinear when $t=0$ and not for $t \neq 0$. For $t \neq 0$, the homogenous ideal of $X_t$ is $$\langle xztxy, yztxy, z^2t^2 xy \rangle$$ Let $Y$ be the closure of $\langle xztxy, yztxy, z^2t^2 xy \rangle$ in $\mathbb{A}^3 \times \mathbb{A}^1$. If I haven't made any errors, the ideal of $Y$ is $$\langle xztxy, yztxy, z^2t^2 xy, xy(xy) \rangle.$$ Since I defined $Y$ as the closure of a flat family over a smooth one dimensional base, it is flat. For $t \neq 0$, the fiber $Y_t$ is the cone on $X_t$. However, at $t=0$, the fiber $Y_0$ is not the cone on $X_0$. They are the same away from the origin, but $Y_0$ has an extra nonreduced bit. Specifically, since $X_0$ lies on the line $z=0$, the cone on $X_0$ has $z$ in its defining ideal, while $Y_0$ has nothing in degree $1$. You can picture $Y_0$ as three coplanar lines, plus a nonreduced tangent vector pointing out the the $z=0$ plane; the cone on $X_0$ doesn't have that extra nonreduced piece. What may be confusing you is that there isn't some nonflat family here for me to point to. The family $Y_t$, which exists, is flat, but its fibers are not the cones on the $X_t$. There is no closed subfamily of $\mathbb{A}^3 \times \mathbb{A}^1$ whose fibers are the cones on the $X_t$. This is the general picture whenever you have a flat family in $\mathbb{P}^N$ which does not lift to a flat family of projective cones. 

