# “Mathematics talk” for five year olds

I am trying to prepare a "mathematics talk" for five year olds from my daughter's elementary school. I have given many mathematics talks in my life but this one feels very tough to prepare. Could the members of the community share their experience with these kind of lectures. I was thinking to talk about some theorems of Euclidean geometry which will include some old fashion compass, straight edge construction with some kind "magical outcome" and then try to give kids some logical reasons for the "magic". Any ideas?

Edit: I would like to thank one more time to the members of the mathoverflow community for their generous input and support as well to report the outcome of my talk.

I just got out from my daughter's elementary school where I ended up teaching four class periods today instead of the one I originally prepared for. I taught two sections of 5 year olds (26 kids a section) as well as two large group of fifth graders (close to 100 kids in total). I was "over prepared" to talk to 5 year olds which came handy with fifth graders.

Inspired by the answers from this forum I chose to talk about Platonic solids and have kids mostly engaged in practical activities as oppose of "teaching" them. My assistant chair at Augusta State University Georgia has generously shared her large collection of POLYDRON blocks. I had three bags full of equilateral triangles, squares, and pentagons. I have also pre-build one set of all five Platonic solids (Tetrahedron, Cube, Octahedron, Dodecahedron, and Icosahedron). I have also printed out cut and fold maps for all solids from this website and gave them to kids together with building blocks.

We identified first the properties of polygons (number of sides, vertices, and angles) of each of building blocks were to use as well as the fact they were regular (sides and angles of equal length). I was rather surprised that five year old children have no problem identifying pentagon as it is the shape of rather important building in Washington DC.

Then we introduced the rules of our "game":

1. Only the same "shapes" were to be used for building solids.

2. Two faces could meet only in one edge.

3. Each vertex of the solid had to meet the same number of faces.

Five year old kids had no problem assembling Tetrahedron, Cube, Octahedron however not a single group (they were allowed to work alone of in groups of 2-3) was able to assemble Dodecahedron, and Icosahedron. This was not the case with fifth graders (older kids) where several groups (4-5 out of 100 kids) successfully assembled Dodecahedron, and Icosahedron.

Even 5 year olds were able to identify number of faces, edges, and vertices by counting from the cut and fold charts. They had harder time identifying Schläfli symbols for each Platonic surface due to the fact that they had to count them on my pre-build models but they have never the less accomplished the task. We were able to come up with Euler characteristic (magic number as I referred) but the real focus was on subtracting numbers which we did using our fingers. Obviously the kids got lost after the cube due to the size of numbers involved. I was not able to convey any information about further combinatorial properties of Platonic solids related to Schläfli symbols to five year olds.

$$pF=2E=qV$$

but had hard time solving equations as $pF=2E$ for $F$ and $2E=qV$ for $V$ and substituting into

$$V-E+F=2$$

not a single fifth grader could follow my computation for the estimate

$$\frac{1}{p}+\frac{1}{q}>\frac{1}{2}$$

where were effectively ended our little lecture.

In both sections kids asked me to preform some more "magic tricks". I glued a long strip of paper for them creating a cylinder and Mobius bend. Many kids thought of cylinder as a circle and Mobius bend as a figure eight (few fifth graders mentioned infinity symbols) even that they could not give any logical explanation why they think that way. We cut cylinder and Mobius bend and children start cheering my name when Mobius bend "broke" into just another bigger Mobius bend.

Five year olds wanted to hug me after the lecture and sit at my table in cafeteria. The fifth graders were either indifferent or came to me after the talk to shake my hand and ask if I can teach another class. It is also worth noting that while playing with blocks many fifth graders made prisms, pyramids while some try to pass non-platonic solids for Platonic solids bending rules of our game.

Teachers were trusty for this kind of experience. They are in a bad need for professional development after years of budget cuts and fear for their jobs. The school is going to buy blocks. I hope to make visits semi-regular and help them as much as I can (obviously out of selfish interest to improve my daughter's education). I have already planed to introduce some other games like tangram, pentominoes, and Hanoi tower. I will also install GeoGebra on their computers.

I might edit this post in next few days and add few details.

Most Kind Regards,

Predrag

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Euclidean geometry sounds way too sophisticated for five-year-olds, but I don't have any experience working with that age range so I can't say what might be appropriate. With small groups of nine-year-olds, I've gotten them to think mathematically via games (along the lines of "alternate turns taking stones from a pile; when it's your turn, you can take 1, 3, or 4 but not 2; whoever takes the last stone wins"). It's easy to get things started by having them play with each other. Then you can try to easy them into analysis via questions like "When did you know you were going to win?" – Henry Cohn Oct 1 '12 at 1:25
@Predrag Punosevac: It sounds like you don't remember how little most kids know at that age. Maybe you should talk to some, or watch a kindergarten math class. At that age (kindergarten includes ages 4 and 5 at this time of the year) they are usually learning to count, and it's dangerous to give them something sharp like a compass. – Douglas Zare Oct 1 '12 at 2:58
The question isn't what your own children know, but what most of the audience will know. I would be willing to wager most have never used a compass. Are you happy with losing most of your audience? – Douglas Zare Oct 1 '12 at 4:15
Ask them if they can count, then ask them the biggest number they know, then ask them if there is a biggest number. Have them discuss with one another whether there's a biggest number. Then have students share their ideas. This can lead to some deep thinking; the idea of "there can't be a biggest number because we can always add 1 more to get an even bigger number" might not be obvious to most 5 year olds. You might also have the precocious child who has learned the word "infinity". Is infinity the biggest number (is it even a number)? What about infinity plus one (or plus infinity)? etc – Benjamin Dickman Oct 1 '12 at 6:58
The question reminds me the following story. When one of my kids was 5 years old a psychologist came to their class to talk to them. After half an hour she had the feeling that the children do not really understand a word she was saying. “Children” she asked at that point, “do you understand my terminology?” – Gil Kalai Oct 5 '12 at 2:25

I'm going to quote Bill Thurston from his interview for More Mathematical People:

Thurston: ... One thing that is very important is the education of children... In the elementary schools in Princeton that my kids have attended, there is an annual event called Science Day. They bring in scientists from the community, and we spend a day going around from class to class talking about things. I have enjoyed doing that quite a bit.

MMP: What have you talked about?

Thurston: I have done different things every year for ten years or so; for example, topology, symmetry, binary counting on fingers... I find that kids are really ready to pick up mathematics in the way that I myself think about it. Of course, it's toned down.

MMP: Can you be a little bit more specific about the way you think about mathematics?

Thurston: That's a tough question. It might be nice to give an example. At one time I went into a class of kids and made lots of equilateral triangles. We made a tetrahedron by putting three triangles at each vertex. Then I asked what happens if you put four triangls, and they constructed an octahedron. Then with five triangles at each vertex they constructed an icosahedron. But with six triangles they found that the construction just lays flat. And then I asked about seven triangles at each vertex. They pieced it together and they got these hyperbolic tesselations in four-space. They loved that. The kids did. But the teacher really felt ill at ease. She didn't know what was happening.

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This is really great! Never thought about modeling hyperbolic space this way... – Steven Gubkin Oct 2 '12 at 0:54
There are bright plastic polygons which snap together and hinge at the edges called Polydrons. I use them myself, but I think they are designed to appeal to children, too. They are a little expensive for toys but I think the intuition you can gain from playing with them is hard to acquire otherwise. – Douglas Zare Oct 2 '12 at 4:02
I would guess that physical constraints would prevent you from using Polydrons from adding too many triangles around a central vertex. Certainly 7 would be doable. Have you tried seeing how high you can go? – Steven Gubkin Oct 2 '12 at 19:43
I did try that once, but I don't recall the answer. I'll have to find them to check. – Douglas Zare Oct 2 '12 at 21:39
Naive question: what is the sense in which these final tessellations live in FOUR-space? – Sridhar Ramesh Oct 3 '12 at 17:06

I've seen a very successful interactive math talk to a participating audience of five and six year olds at MSRI a few years ago. It was structured around the question of "what's the largest number?" Kids had fun coming up with large numbers but eventually one of the youngsters figured out a simple way to always come up with a number bigger than the previous one named. Through some nice leading by the teacher, they eventually concluded (indeed proved) that there are an infinite number of natural numbers. It was fun watching the kids (by then fully engaged) grapple with what is really a quite abstract idea --- that one can know that the numbers are unending without actually exhibiting them in any way. It was a terrifically sneaky way to engage kids and hear their ideas on notions like "infinity" or even "number".

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I just noticed that this idea was already mentioned in the comments by Benjamin Dickman. I can at attest that I have seen it in action with actual kids and it works well. – Jim Bryan Oct 1 '12 at 8:05
Bob Kaplan told me a story about a time he did this. He'd asked the kids what the largest number was, and one of them proposed something extravagant like "a million billion". Another kid asked "What about a million billion and one?", to which the first replied "Well, I was close." – Henry Cohn Oct 1 '12 at 12:10

Giving a little "Magic show" about Mobius strips might be fun. Make a huge number of mobius strips and cylinders, and hand them out to the kids along with safety scissors. You could have a predrawn "center line". Ask them what will happen when they cut along the center line: How many pieces will you get? They will probably say two for both shapes. Have them cut along the line and see what happens! The result for the cylinder is as expected, but for the mobius strip you get a piece of paper with two twists. Now ask them what happens if they cut this in half. You get two interconnected links! You could have them start with a new mobius strip and cut halfway between the center line and one edge, following their way around. You get a mobius strip linked to a double twisted strip! This will all be great fun for the kids.

You can "explain" some of these phenomena by showing them how to make a mobius strip themselves: just take a strip of paper, twist it, and tape the ends together. From this perspective cutting a mobius strip in half is just the same as taking two strips next to each other, twisting both of them, but the head of one piece attaches to the tail of the other, so you can see how cutting the strip in half only leads to "one piece". It might help to have some different colors of paper, so they can more easily keep track of the "two halves".

You could show them some Escher drawings involving Mobius strips - the one with the ants would probably delight them.

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Along these lines, you could just show them Vi Hart videos: vihart.com/blog/mobius-story – Qiaochu Yuan Oct 1 '12 at 3:36
Don't show them Vi Hart videos. Entertaining though they might be for some people, they are too frenetic and incomprehensible for small children. Hands-on interaction is the way to go. – Todd Trimble Oct 1 '12 at 4:36
A kindergarten demonstration of the remarkably counter-intuitive properties of the Möbius strip is perhaps my oldest mathematical memory. – Rbega Oct 1 '12 at 10:50

I think you'll have the best luck if you try to make it interactive. Kids that age have very low attention span and very high energy -- they like to use all their senses, so I would avoid just talking at them for any period of more than five minutes. I would also avoid general logical reasoning, which in my experience can't really be grasped at that age. What's possible, though, is to go through enough examples (or have them go through enough examples!) to give them a feel for why something is true, without providing any kind of strict argument.

But what really makes an impression (like Henry says above) are patterns, especially ones that have pictures associated with them. I've had good luck drawing out Sierpinski's triangle (and having them draw it too, which is fun), then introducing Pascal's triangle, then coloring the evens one color and the odds another and seeing Sierpinski's triangle pop out. If you can get them to realize that one can just do Pascal's triangle all the way working mod 2, then it will be an amazing success -- and if they can actually understand why Sierpinski's triangle shows up, it will be a miracle.

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Quick web searches show "even and odd" numbers are covered in first grade, which suggests that many first graders won't know them at this time of the year. This doesn't mean you can't have kindergarten students create Sierpinski's triangle, just don't rely on them knowing what even and odd mean. Here is an example of a list of concepts for kindergarten students: homeschoolmath.net/teaching/kindergarten.php – Douglas Zare Oct 1 '12 at 2:43
I was going to write an answer, but this one already says the two things I think are most important: (1) make everything as hands-on as possible, and (2) avoid logical reasoning. It seems to me that making things and playing with things---especially noisy, colorful, fun-to-handle things---provides lots of direct, external sensory stimulation, while thinking about things and understanding things provides mostly internal stimulation. I get the impression (both from my limited experience working with kids and my long experience being a kid) that young children far prefer the former. – Vectornaut Oct 1 '12 at 8:30
Are you for real about Sierpinski Carpet and Pascal Triangle mod 2??? You may show them some Jackson Pollock painting and Wilson loops as well! – Bugs Bunny Oct 1 '12 at 16:29
@Douglas: were you searching for what's covered in first grade in Serbia? Predrag lists his location as Bagdala. (The cynical thought crossed my mind that you might have assumed he lived in the same country as you.) – Tom Leinster Oct 1 '12 at 19:14
Predrag: OK. Since you listed your location as Bagdala, and Bagdala is in Serbia, I assumed that Serbia was your current location. But no big deal, of course. Douglas: I have no thoughts about varying cognitive abilities. It's simply that you made statements about what first-graders would have covered, and that kind of thing varies enormously around the world - different educational systems do things at different paces. (Actually, Predrag didn't say "first-grader", he said "five-year-old". Whether those descriptions coincide is also geography-dependent.) – Tom Leinster Oct 2 '12 at 19:23

Here's a short list of activities that could be fun to try:

Begin by giving the numbers 1 through 9 to 9 students. Here it's good to have a physical number to give them -- a piece of paper with the number written large will work. Ask them to line up in order. Ask 7 whether he or she is even or odd (you don't have to remember their names if they are holding up numbers). Ask 7 about the numbers next to her -- are they even or odd? (5-year olds won't automatically know that even numbers are surrounded by odd numbers. They might not know the meaning of even and odd until you run the activity.)

Further activity: Have only 1-5 stand up in order. Then rearrange them using only transpositions (say "Number 2, switch with Number 5"). Have the students count each transposition. Then have a (well-chosen) student try to put them back in order using only "switches". How many switches did it take? Can 5-year olds discover the sign of a permutation? How about if you record the number of switches and point out even/oddness?

Further activity: Have only 1-5 stand up in order. Have them shake hands in pairs and try to have the others count the handshakes. How many handshakes were there? An even number or an odd number of handshakes? Can 5-year olds discover how the parity of "n choose 2" depends on n?

Further activity: Have the numbers 1-9 stand up in order again. Have them find a partner to add to 10. Then back in line again. Have the even numbers step forward, and the odd numbers step back. Then the even numbers back and the odd numbers forward. Then back in partners to add to 10. Are evens partnered with evens? Odds partnered with odds? You can ask lots of questions and keep the kids moving.

Watch out -- you might have to bring extra numbers and modify groups so that all kids can participate.

Good luck! When in doubt you can ask the 5-year olds why 6 is scared of 7.

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I addressed my son's class in school when he was five. it was not quite the same thing as what you're asking about: it was part of a series of "what I do at work" talks by parents, and it was very brief. I wanted to give a little taste of topology. Of course I prepared a big Moebius strip and did tricks with it. I considered also counting $v-e+f=2$ for some convex polytopes, but I decided to keep it simple, so as not to overreach or overstay my welcome. So instead I drew an octagon on the chalkboard and had them discover that this thing with eight sides also has eight corners. And when that had sunk in I remarked that if I had drawn something with one hundred sides, it would have had one hundred corners. One excitable little boy shouted "Do it! Do it!" So, one conclusion: yes, they do like big numbers.

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We all do. (Well, maybe some ultrafinitists don't.) – Todd Trimble Oct 1 '12 at 22:51

I ran a bunch of classes at a school a while ago. My students were older, but lessons to be learnt:

• Do craft: I did lots of origami. This is beyond 5 year olds. But what about this: attach a pencil to a string and then attach the string to a point on a piece of card. Now observe that by drawing then pencil with the string taut you get a circle. If you fix the string in more places you can get different shapes. You'd need to do a fair bit of prep for this of course.... You could also do something connected to symmetry. Use a mirror and ask what it means for two things to be the same. Distorting mirrors could be used for comparison. Drawing half a butterfly in wet paint and then folding it in two to get the other half. That sort of thing.

• Do magic: I did a binary numbers one: I got someone to think of a number and then showed them cards and asked them if the number was on the card or not. Then after 8 of these cards I told them the number. The trick was that each card corresponded to the numbers 1 mod 2, 2 mod 4, 4 mod 8 etc. Even just finding a number on some card may be too hard for five year olds but the principle of presenting your material with some theatre is sound: it can make anything appear to be a little magical.

• Come in character: You could be the Numbers Wizard or King Triangle or something. Wear a cape covered in numbers, have a pet rabbit called Cubey, make moo-ing sounds. Whatever feels right to you :-)

And the suggestions above for moving around a lot, avoiding `giving a talk' as such but being interactive are all totally sound.

Good luck!

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If you "do magic", as suggested above, combine numbers with pictures. Instead of numbers 1, 2, ... , the cards should show a magician, a rabbit, etc. Or 1 magician, 2 rabbits, 5 golden rings, etc. – Goldstern Oct 1 '12 at 11:40

I have put my book, Modern Math for Elementary Schoolers, on the Internet. The book is based on my teaching experience at LAMC, Los Angeles Math Circle, a free Sunday school for mathematically inclined children, currently second grade through high school, run by the UCLA Math Dept. I had taught my own son and a few of his buddies using the material that later became that book from the first day of their kindergarten. You can find the book at the following URL.

The book is copy-lefted. You can use it for any non-commercial purpose.

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@unknown (google) Outstanding!!! Thank you so much! – Predrag Punosevac Oct 2 '12 at 1:58

Many five-year-olds, given a pair of compasses, will use it to stab their neighbour. But the better-behaved ones should be able to manage this:

Draw a circle.
Centre a point on its circumference, same radius, draw an arc within the circle, running from circumference to circumference.
Centre a point where this arc meets the circle, same radius, draw another such arc.
Repeat.
By magic, after six arcs, you end up where you started.

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Not only do you end up where you started, but you have a pretty, flower-like design to color (later). This is one of my earliest mathematical memories. Once I learned to bisect an arc, I drew a second flower "behind" the first by starting at a bisection point. Bisection may be too hard for 5-year-olds, but a second flower randomly rotated relative to the first might make an interesting (for 5-year-olds) pattern. – Andreas Blass Oct 1 '12 at 15:31
As I recall, it takes practice with a compass to have the accuracy to make a convincing hexagon this way, and kindergarteners don't have great dexterity even if you manage to explain the process to them. – Douglas Zare Oct 2 '12 at 6:03
I agree with Douglas Zare. For example, even as an adult, I can't make a convincing drawing of Pappus's theorem (Pascal's theorem applied on two lines used a degenerate conic) come out right if drawn with a straightedge. – Zsbán Ambrus Mar 19 '13 at 18:39

See "Picture-Hanging Puzzles" by Erik Demaine et al. (arXiv link):

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I saw Erik do this...really cool stuff. – Jon Bannon Oct 1 '12 at 22:48

On three occasions I surprised 4 and 5 years olds with counting on one hand to 10. here's how this is done: http://www.mathteacherctk.com/blog/2010/07/counting-on-one-hand-and-on-two/

The kids knew to count fingers in the conventional way. They could not believe it is possible to go beyond that. They tried and, when this worked, they were delighted. For a talk, I would first show that there are several ways of counting to five: bending/straightening fingers, starting with a thumb or the pinky. I would stress the point that however you count the result is always the same. After that I would count to 10.

You can prepare chocolate bars and then ask how many breaks it would take to break them into squares. It's a different way of counting the squares so the result is also the same however you break the bars: http://www.cut-the-knot.org/proofs/chocolad.shtml

Another fine activity has to do with the braid theory: draw vertical lines, join them randomly with several horizontal lines, and then follow from top to bottom alternating vertical and horizontal lines, changing direction at every horizontal endpoint: http://www.cut-the-knot.org/Curriculum/Algebra/Shuttles.shtml Perfect for job distribution among the kids.

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If there are more than 26 kids in the group, you can tell them you know for sure that two of them have names starting with the same letter (more than 12: birthday in the same month, and so on). In a column in the newspaper, the physicist Robbert Dijkgraaf recounted how he did this once with a group of five or six year olds; one of them got it immediately, and a lively discussion followed.

From there, you might try to explain the pigeonhole principle, or go on to counting, or even do the thing about people knowing each other at a party (though that might be too hard).

Good luck!

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I just realized you probaby write a version of the Cyrillic alphabet, so you will need 31 or even 34 kids. Excuse my latinocentrism! – Philip van Reeuwijk Oct 3 '12 at 12:26
@Philip van Reeuwijk Serbian Cyrillic alphabet has 30 letters. I have been living in U.S. for the past 17 years so 26 letters will definitely work here in Georgia:) – Predrag Punosevac Oct 3 '12 at 20:46

Computer Science Unplugged offers plenty of possibilities:

CS Unplugged is a collection of free learning activities that teach Computer Science through engaging games and puzzles that use cards, string, crayons and lots of running around.

The activities introduce students to underlying concepts such as binary numbers, algorithms and data compression, separated from the distractions and technical details we usually see with computers.

Of course, some might argue that Computer Science is not a subset of Mathematics...

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A very similar question was posted just over a year ago on Reddit's /r/math by a professor who had to speak to his daughter's class about what a math professor does. He was speaking to first graders so some would have been six, not five, but that's close enough.

Later, he posted a followup reporting how it went.

Summary: fractals, especially the Mandelbrot set. The kids went absolutely wild over it. They grasped the self-similarity. Parents told him their kids came home and would not stop talking about the Mandelbrot set.

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I'm sure the kids thought the pictures looked nice, but I'm skeptical that they took anything away directly related to math. They don't know complex numbers, and most won't know multiplication. – Douglas Zare Oct 2 '12 at 3:59
In some sense that might not matter -- the idea that mathematical things are beautiful (and maybe mysterious too, in a way that begs for further exploration) is something that's important for children to appreciate. – Todd Trimble Oct 2 '12 at 11:57
I guess I'll add that one thing that impressed me enormously when I was a child was the film "Donald Duck in Mathmagicland" -- the excitement I felt watching it is a memory I carry to this day. Ostensibly, I was sitting passively and doing nothing except watching, but I was very excited by what I had seen -- I'm not sure I would have been able to articulate that excitement to my parents, but that film (with things like Fibonacci numbers, logarithmic spirals, music and the Pythagoreans) -- it struck a deep chord. – Todd Trimble Oct 2 '12 at 23:04
One thing that the kids might have taken away from the Mandelbrot set talk (that neither of us witnessed) is a sense of recursivity (with a sense of the infinite implied). Since there are lots of videos and programs out there which allow you to zoom in on different points of the Mandelbrot set, some exploration after the fact is possible. This is also a potential avenue to understanding complex numbers, which are basically what geometrically? Zooming in/out + turning. But at this point, I think I'm done commenting on this topic. – Todd Trimble Oct 3 '12 at 12:31
I noticed this when I watched it when I was a kid. – Jim Conant Oct 11 '12 at 17:59

I've spoken about the "puzzles" that Terry Tao and I developed for Schubert calculus, like the left two here:

I handed out pieces (the 0-triangles, 1-triangles, and rhombi) for the 3rd graders to assemble, in groups, telling them to make triangles. Then made a table with n = #edges on a side (any side, since they're equilateral), k = #1s on a side (theorem: any side), n-k, #1-triangles, #0-triangles, #rhombi.

Different groups made different puzzles, and I included some little ones (n=0 and 1) in the table. Then asked if anyone saw patterns. I got the answers I wanted, which were that #1-triangles = $k^2$, #0-triangles = $(n-k)^2$, #rhombi = $k(n-k)$.

It works nicely with younger children, too, but they're less likely to guess these formulae.

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I would definitely not agree on giving a "talk" to 5 yo kids. It is very difficult to keep their attention for more than a couple of seconds. Unless, you tell a story.

The topic I would choose is "counting", and being more specific "counting by ordering"

Example 1: Make a slide with 15 dots in random positions, ask them: How many points are there?

Then a second slide with 15 dots, three groups each of 5 dots arranged as in the face of a dice. Make the same question as before.

Then a third slide with 15 dots arranged in a rectangle (if they can multiply this is easy 3x5). again make the question.

The moral is that by ordering counting is easy.

Example 2: Make them walk in the room, and ask them: How many kids are in the room? But don´t let them stop walking... -Do you want to stop?- then make them stop and ask them again... this should be much easier (even for an adult)

You can include some problems on counting (like those where you have to conun how many triangles are there in a given picture)... you know, there you need to be careful not to count more than once... or make them draw a couple of lines in a piece of paper, then mark the intersection points and when they're finished ask them: -How many points are there? -how many triangles?

... well I guess you got the idea.

wish you luck!

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I gave a lecture to the Wrexham Science Festival some years back on "How mathematics gets into knots", advertised as for 8-80, but I think it extends. You see some ideas for this on the knot exhibition part of

http://wwww.popmath.org.uk

Things you can do are:

Dirac string trick (using the home made apparatus apparatus illustrated there, two wooden squares, one with an arrow on it, coloured ribbon, and bulldog clips to fasten the ribbon to the board, easy to undo in case everything gets tangled), and related to the belt trick and the Philipine wine glass trick (do a search on this, and also on Air on the Dirac String). We have found young children love this, but best to let them try an empty glass or plastic mug first!

Showing addition of knots is commutative, using just a piece of rope. Hope that helps.

Update: A flat model of the Mobius Band is easy to make and fun. Do a Google search on "Brehm Model". here is a link to a transformation of this into a sculpture.

Another thing for kids is to cut out and make Borromean Squares. Again, do a web search on this. Even Borromean triangles.

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Could you provide a link to this? I've never heard of the Philippine wine trick. – Joel Reyes Noche Oct 3 '12 at 9:22
@Joe; Reyes Noche: see my edited version! – Ronnie Brown Oct 3 '12 at 16:08
Also, you might get some ideas from pages.bangor.ac.uk/~mas010/outofline/out-home.html I had copper pentoil and trefoil knots made for this trick, and it has gone to a few many continents. Get them to make Borromean squares? (do a search on that) – Ronnie Brown Oct 3 '12 at 16:17
@Ronnie Brown, thanks for the keywords. The dance involving glasses of water is called the Binasuan (tagaloglang.com/Filipino-Culture/Philippine-Dances/…). A dance that uses lighted oil lamps is the Pandanggo sa Ilaw (en.wikipilipinas.org/index.php?title=Pandanggo_sa_Ilaw) – Joel Reyes Noche Oct 5 '12 at 13:32

Keep it fun and interactive. Some Game Theory could go well. Rock-Paper-Scissors will rock, if you can program some toons to play different strategies...

Maybe some problem/puzzle solving, say some River crossing puzzles or Rubick cubes (if you get one rubick cube for each kid), or mathstick puzzles, if Rubick cubes are out of your budget :-))

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I don't know that 4-5 year olds have the coordination to handle a Rubik's cube. The "recommended age" given is 8-12. – Douglas Zare Oct 2 '12 at 5:58

When I was an undergrad, I heard a story where a young child was excited by watching 6 equal-sized equilateral triangles fit together to form a regular hexagon. I don't remember what her age was, but this sounds doable for 5-year-olds, especially if you make the triangles take the colors of the rainbow, excluding indigo.
This is exceptional, in that this is the only example of a regular polygon decomposable as the finite disjoint (except for boundaries) union of smaller regular polygons of a different shape. If one drops the "different shape" requirement, one can put equilateral triangles together to make a bigger equilateral triangle or put squares together to make a bigger square.
But 5 may be too young to get a feel for how, for example, angles work. I don't know how they'll handle failing to put equilateral triangles to make a square, for example.

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A regular $12$-gon decomposes into a hexagon, $6$ squares, and $6$ triangles. – Douglas Zare Oct 2 '12 at 4:04

perhaps they could play with a bunch of these

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That's a slick video, but how would hexaflexagons be presented to an audience of 4- or 5-year-olds? I don't think you could expect them to make hexaflexagons without a lot of help and time. – Douglas Zare Oct 8 '12 at 9:53
ah, well, what I meant is to make a few for them to play with. – Jacob Bell Oct 10 '12 at 22:06