Let $A(n,p)$ be the order of the largest subset of $M_n(Z_p)$ such that no two distinct matrices in this subset commute. Is it true that $\lim_{p \to \infty} \dfrac{A(n,p)}{p^{n^2}} =1$? Can anyone find better asymptotics?
Also, what happens if we fix $p$ and allow $n$ to grow?
(Inspired by 1990 Putnam B3)